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31 July 2008, 23:36
You Want to Achieve Success by Chris Widener
Seven Things You Must Give to Others if You Want to Achieve Success! by Chris Widener
A major part of the process of achieving success and living the kind of life that you dream of is to give. Many people think that to get what you want you have to take it. There is a universal truth though that the true path to get what you want is to give. When you give, you get. What you sow, you shall reap. If this is true, then what is it we must give? I'll show you the way...
Give Others Your Honesty.
The world we live in has a simple rule that most follow: Lie when you have to. Unfortunately, this may make some people wealthy but it makes us humans poor. To achieve success is to become wealthy not only in money, but in character. To be successful, truly successful, is to be able to attain your goals and keep your character at the same time!
"Honesty is the most single most important factor having a direct bearing on the final success of an individual, corporation, or product." Ed McMahon
Mister McMahon is right, though others will tell you otherwise. Some people will say, "You have to bend the truth to get ahead." Not true. Some of the most successful people who have ever lived where honest people. How about you? Are you honest in all things? The problem with little lies is they become big ones. Lies spin out of control. You get caught in one lie and you lie to get out of it etc. In all things and at all times, give others your honesty.
Give Others Your Respect.
Most of the time we give people respect based on what they have done or what they have accomplished. We gauge whether or not they are "worthy" of it based on what we know of what they have achieved or who they know or are related to.
But I believe we should have a higher standard: We respect people not for what they have done or for who they are related to or for what they can do for us. Instead, we respect people for simply being. What would happen in our world, in our company, and yes, even in our families if we started with respect for everyone else rather than making them earn it? I think we would see that most people would live up to the respect that we give them!
Give Others Your Vulnerability.
We are taught to "be strong." And yes, we should be strong. But we have also embraced something that I think keeps us from having the kind of life that we long for. It is an idea that keeps us from experiencing the kind of relationships that would bring deep meaning to us. It is the idea of vulnerability.
"But Chris, make yourself vulnerable and people will step all over you!" It is true that this will happen. But I have also seen that most people will be drawn to you. They will help you. They will open up to you. You see, we are all broken people inside. We all have secrets. Yet everyone plays the poser. When one let's down their veil, others soon follow - and we all win.
Give Others Your Care.
Too many people are running around this old earth not caring about others. The days of "Look Out for Number One" and "Winning Through Intimidation" are over! Let's bring about a new day when we can care about others AND succeed!
Take the time to show people you care. Listen to them. Empathize with them. Love them. Now, I don't mean that you have to go around hugging everyone - that probably wouldn't fly in corporate America anyway - but we can take some time to step back from business and be human! And I have found that when we do so, our business succeeds as well!
Give Others Your Passion.
There is nothing this world needs more than passionate people. And people need passionate people. Living in this day and age can be tiring. The hustle and bustle of it all can wear you down and tire you out. Give your passion to others and fire them up.
Don't just be humdrum - be excited. Give people all the energy you can muster up. And you will find that energy reciprocal. They will get energized and passionate. This in turn will fire you up more when you are already charged and get you going altogether when you don't feel like moving at all!
Give Others Your Experience.
We all have areas that we excel in and they are usually areas that we have experience in. One of the things we can do to make our lives more meaningful and be of utmost help to others is to show them the way through the experiences we have.
Sometimes it will be what they should do: Shortcuts to take, people to meet etc. Sometimes it will be what they should not do: Shortcuts not to take and people toasty away from! Whatever it is, we can be of service to others by giving them our experience and ultimately it will make us all better!
Give Others Your Help.
All in all, what we want to do is to help others. Zig Ziglar says that if we will "help others get what they want, we will in turn get what we want." If we want to be successful, we should consider ourselves servants of other people. What can we do to help them and make them better? This is the true path to greatness and success, not only in business but in life!
If you want to live the life you have always dreamed of ask yourself if you:
Give Others Your Honesty
Give Others Your Respect.
Give Others Your Vulnerability.
Give Others Your Care.
Give Others Your Passion.
Give Others Your Experience.
Give Others Your Help.
-- Chris Widener
From Chris Widener's Ezine - Issue No. 92
Margarita Nomeikiene
ENJOY!
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29 July 2008, 20:35
The Richest Men in the World
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Do you feel like I did when I finished reading Think and Grow Rich?
I was so excited by the incredible principles that Napoleon Hill shared that I thought I was going to crawl out of my skin.
I needed something big to happen in my life. And I needed it in a bad way. I was in the middle of the darkest days of my life.
One of those days saw my family and I evicted from our home. On another day we lost the last automobile we had and for more than a year I drove a 12-year-old bomb I borrowed from a friend.
There were other days when the phone and electric were cut off. Actually, the days the phone was off weren’t totally bad because it meant I didn’t have to listen to the bill collectors and their nasty threats.
I was so desperate for a solution and so ready for a change and I instinctively knew as I read those pages that I had found the answers I was looking for.
My excitement grew with each eye-opening chapter. I raced through the book as if when I reached the end I'd find a check for $1 million. Instead, when I reached the last page somewhat bewildered, I pondered the really big question of...
What do I do next?
There were so many things that jumped off the pages that I thought I needed to change in my life that I didn’t know where to begin.
Were some more important than the others? How should I prioritize them?
How would I know if I was on the right track?
And how would I conquer that dream-killer that had been a problem so many times in my life --- the numbing fear that froze me from taking action?
Before I get too far into the saga, it’s probably helpful to stop right now and blow a great big hole in one of the biggest lies you’ve ever been told. It’s the same lie I heard and believed, and it almost killed me because…
I worked as hard as anyone I’ve ever known, and I was still flat broke (and if that’s you, the only thing you have to look forward to is an early grave).
In fact, I venture to say that I’ve never met anyone who has ever worked harder than me --- sometimes 18 hours a day, seven days a week. After all, like you, I’d always heard that an important part of the wealth formula was working hard. Right?
Where did that get me? In 1997, one of my hardest working years, I earned less than $15,000 and qualified for a federal poverty program. Take a look at my pitiful 1997 tax return that’s on this page. That’s about the best testimony I can give that the biggest thing working hard will get you is an early grave.
Now, think about this: the name of Napoleon’s book is not Work Hard and Get Rich.
In fact, he’s crystal clear about the whole idea of working hard to achieve wealth: “Riches, when they come in huge quantities, are never the result of HARD work!”
I once heard a very enlightening exchange between Bob Proctor and a person sitting in the audience. As the audience member was describing himself as "hard working," Bob interrupted him and asked him why he wanted to be "hard working," because creating wealth has nothing at all to do with working hard. The audience member grew speechless as it dawned on him what Bob was talking about.
Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not a lazy person -- and I don't know any real successful people who are. But since I've gotten my head screwed on straight, it's not my goal to work harder. To the contrary, my goal now is to create MORE with LESS. More success with less effort.
When I changed my "Personal Wealth Formula" it was like I unleashed Niagara Falls flowing with cash.
Stop and and think about it. Whether they know it or not, everyone (you included) already has a personal wealth formula. Just because it doesn't produce massive wealth doesn't mean it's not a wealth formula -- it just means it's not a very effective wealth formula.
Some people's personal wealth formula consists of clocking in and clocking out of a 40-50 hour a week job. They sell their time at wholesale to a company that turns around and sells it at retail.
Other people's formula consists of selling their life away in a similar hourly fashion. We call them doctors, dentists, lawyers, accountants, etc. While they may earn more than the typical hourly wage earner, they can't achieve true wealth solely from selling their hours. Because like all of us, they have only so many hours in a day.
For me, my personal wealth formula in 1997 was disastrous. It seemed the harder I worked the less I made.
When I stopped "working hard" and started “thinking and creating,” and when I made just a few changes to my personal wealth formula, I started making money so fast and so easily it was like turning a simple household faucet on --- money started gushing out everywhere.
Here's what's happened since I changed my "Personal Wealth Formula" by using the principles from Think and Grow Rich:
In 1997 I qualified at the U.S. Federal Poverty level, earning just under $15,000 for the year (see tax return above). Less than 10 years later I was regularly earning that amount on many days! In fact, I’ve earned that in just a few minutes!
In 1996 I was evicted from my home. Just ten years later I owned expensive homes at the beach and on a popular lake (the picture on this page is from the second story deck at the lake --- you wouldn't believe the ospreys, egrets, otters, cardinals and other wildlife that we encounter every day we're there).
And even though I live in a paradise, I vacation 5-6 times a year in some of the hottest spots in the world including Aspen, Jackson Hole, Paris, London, Rome, etc. (As a matter of fact, I wrote most of this letter on a plane back from a six-day Valentine's holiday with my Sweetheart at the Rusty Parrott Lodge in Jackson Hole).
Today I have a popular TV show, a best selling book and over 300,000 subscribers from virtually every country in the world. In other words, I’ve truly learned the secrets of Think and Grow Rich.
But here's the biggest secret I learned:
I didn't have to make massive changes to the Personal Wealth Formula I had in 1997 in order to achieve what I have today. Now there were a handful of critical changes (and they were critical), but it's not like I had to change everything.
And I've also learned, from the many thousands of people I've worked with in one way or another, that most people are in the same boat. I've worked with people that in some cases only had to make one change to their Personal Wealth Formula and they tripled their income almost overnight.
Stop and think about it. You've probably heard the analogy that "water boils at 212 degrees." At 211 degrees it's just hot water. But at 212 degrees it turns into steam. And steam can power a turbine that produces electricity for thousands of homes and businesses. All of that incredible power comes from just a one-degree difference.
Where is your Personal Wealth Formula today? Maybe it's 175, 201, even 211 degrees.
Regardless of where you're at, I assure you that anyone can crank their Personal Wealth Formula up to 212 degrees if they're willing to give it a try.
The only thing you will need to give this program a try is an open mind. Open enough to take a chance on yourself and the material you'll learn (actually, you don't even need to take a chance because the program is backed by my personal guarantee -- so you've got nothing to lose. More about that in a minute).
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Six years ago I started sharing the resources and methods I used to go from poverty to prosperity. In that time we’ve helped thousands of people around the world double and triple their income; shed 50, 60, even 100 pounds and more; start their own successful businesses and much, much more.
In doing that, I depended very heavily on the principles I learned in Think and Grow Rich. But I also realized that they could become even more powerful, and put into play even more quickly, if they were presented in a "workshop" manner.
So I did something Napoleon would be proud of:
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28 July 2008, 20:13
Dr. Joe Rubino The Self -Esteem System
Dr. Joe Rubino is an internationally acclaimed personal development trainer, a life-changing success coach and best selling author of 9 books and 2 Audio sets and multiple articles and (audio) presentations on topics ranging from how to restore self-esteem, achieve business success, to maximizing joy and fulfillment in life and productivity in business. As an acclaimed speaker and course leader, he is known for his groundbreaking work in personal and leadership development, building effective teams, enhancing listening and communication skills, life and business coaching and optimal life planning.
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