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09 May 2009, 20:22
Happy Mothers Day!
Mothers day is a great opportunity for love, family and reflection.
Please take a few minutes to read this message and
reflect on your life.
Are you Actively Involved in Getting What You want,
If not you Don't Really Want It.
Write that in big letters somewhere you can read
it often. A lot of negative thinking, depression,
frustration, and illness stems from people's thinking
they want something they don't really want.
How do you really know what you want? What ever
you are actively involved in getting, that's
what you really want. Everything else is just
what you think you want. if you think you want
something and you're not actively involved in
getting it, you're probably just kidding yourself.
It's true that, in every moment, you can't be
actively involved in doing something about everything
you want. How, then, can you tell what you're actively
involved in?
We are more than our minds, more than our thinking
process. We are also more than our feelings and more
than our body. Most people have spent so much time
in either thinking or feeling, they think that a
thought or feel that a feeling is them. To think
you want something or to feel you want something
doesn't necessarily mean that's what you want.
What you want--what you really want---
is what you are making real through action.
If you think you want something but you're not
doing much to get it, you have three choices:
1. You can go on the way you've been: Kidding
yourself and pretending you really want this thing
that you don't really want--or aren't willing to do
the necessary work to get. This causes frustration
("Why can't I have what I want?), hurt ("I never get
what I want"), resentment ("other people get what
they want; why not me?"), and unworthiness ("I guess
I don't really deserve it").
2. Give up the goal. Realize it's nice idea,
and if it were in the next room, you'd probably
go to the next room and partake of it. It is,
however, not something you really want more
than other things you are actively seeking.
3. Do whatever is necessary to reach
the goal. Eliminate from your schedule activities
that support goals with lower priorities than the
one in question. As you move toward your goal,
certain mental, emotional, and physical objections
will be raised. No matter what complaints your
mind, emotions, and body fling at you, if you
know you need to do it, do it anyway. Gently,
lovingly--but firmly--teach the objecting parts
of you that you have a new goal, a new
priority, and that your actions will now be
in alignment with achieving that goal.
Those are your choices. Most people choose
by default--they "Choose" #1 by not choosing,
and things go on as they have in the past.
I suggest you choose from options 2 or 3.
Either will put you more actively in charge
of your thoughts, feelings, and actions
However, I hope you elect to pursue #3.
Please make this Mothers Day a very special day by
Calling or visiting your mom, honor your spouse/partner,
family and friends and make a decision to do something
for your self.
If you are not where you want to be this mothers day
please allow me to help you turn that around.
Before you decide yes or no take a look at what other people just like you are saying about my work.
"Dr. White, this is one of the most profound life lessons I have ever heard -- the energy and TRUTH of the principles you are discussing and revealing here are unlocking the fetters of fear that have for so long shackled me to false paradigms. THANK YOU, THANK YOU! Kerry-Mesa, AZ"
"I love you and your passion Dr White. This is the hardest work I've ever done on myself and I am grateful for the depth of it. Rick-Citrus Springs."
http://www.whatsmypurpose.com
With Appreciation,
Jim White PhD
Author and Creator,
What's My Purpose?
What's My Purpose Life Mastery Course
CEO and Founder,
JL White International, Inc.
Enjoy!
Sincerely, Margarita Nomeikiene
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