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14 February 2010, 09:58
Self-Love alchemy!
Miracle Mind
Hi Reader,
The relationship you have with yourself is like a blueprint that sets the nature and quality of your relationship with others.
The secret to creating and attracting a successful loving relationship with another, whether you have found that 'other' yet or not, lies in loving yourself.
Self-Love will enhance an existing relationship; ironing out problems and taking it to the next level, or attract a healthy, optimum relationship at an appropriate time if you are single.
Furthermore, it will quench any 'need' for a relationship, and bring the deep content and enjoyment of time on your own and being single in a rewarding and empowered way.
For this reason, and with Valentine's up ahead, I have included my article on Self-Love at the link below, which also includes practical ways to love yourself:
Go to: www.beliefbusterkit.com/selflove
The alchemical balm of Self-Love will positively transform all areas of your life and be reflected back to you in greater successes and the receiving of more gifts, blessings and abundance from the universe.
When it comes to love relationships, you may think about or list the qualities you want to show up in a partner, yet how many of those qualities do you show yourself?
Are you considerate, kind, loving, and generous to yourself, for example? Do you acknowledge your gifts, beauty, and attractiveness? Do you celebrate YOU and enjoy your own company? Are you intimate, honest, and respecting of yourself? Are you committed and faithful to you?
"Love is the great miracle cure. Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives." - Louise L. Hay
Your relationship with yourself will be mirrored in your relationships with others. What you cannot give to or receive from yourself, you will lack the ability to do so with another.
Your worth is a given. It is inherent by virtue that you exist. You are a spark of divinity, and an integral miraculous part of creation.
"Worth is a quality, not a quantity. You can neither add to nor diminish your worth. When you act or react in Reality to become more worthy, you will always fail. Stop trying to become worthy and start seeing your own worth."
- Lazaris
Some of the primary blocks that stand in the way of you loving yourself, are your beliefs - the beliefs you hold about yourself.
These are formed largely during childhood years, as well as at other key times in your life, and can be influenced and programmed by your parents, family, friends, media and society.
Limiting self-beliefs might include 'I'm not good enough', 'I'm bad', 'I'm wrong', 'I'm unlovable', 'I don't deserve', 'I'm unworthy', 'Nobody loves me', 'I am alone in the world', etc.
These faulty assumptions and negative self-concepts mar your self-image and the way you perceive and relate to yourself, others and the world.
To clear your limiting self-beliefs and experience your innate loveability and the innocent truth of your being, go to this link
Another major block to self-love is a lack of self-forgiveness. People may find it easy to let others off the hook but can be very hard on themselves.
To forgive yourself, check out Mark Myhre's the Magic of Self-Forgiveness
at this link!
And you can read my article on Self-Love at the link below!
Go to: www.beliefbusterkit.com/selflove
Much love and bright blessings,
Aine
P.S. One way I am loving myself is by enjoying some wonderful travels. In November I went on a dolphin holiday in the Bahamas, in December I took my Mum to Egypt to see the pyramids, and today I am off to Los Angeles for a spiritual seminar, and to enjoy some of the sun, sea and sights.
As a note, if you have been to L.A. or live there and have any tips on where to go, do let me know!
P.P.S. Loving yourself doesn't have to involve expense what-so-ever, of course, for loving yourself is not so much what you do, but how you think and feel about yourself.
Furthermore, there are ample no-cost or low-cost ways to be loving to yourself in practical ways, as explored in my Self-Love article at this link.
I remember a time in my life when I had virtually no money. I felt frustrated and limited in what I could do. Then, when in a thrift/charity shop one day, I noticed a book on the shelf titled "100 great things to do in London for free".
It was a nudge from the universe and demonstrated that fun could be had regardless of whether I had money, and if I used my imagination and adventurous spirit there were many ways I could enjoy myself.
Nature is my greatest love. Where ever you live, nature is always accessible to some degree, whether near to your home or a short travel away.
From http://www.beliefbusterkit.com/selflove
ENJOY!
Margarita Nomeikiene
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